If you haven't had much luck with online dating, perhaps your profile isn't clear about who and what you're looking for. Don't keep your options open in the hopes of getting "any" reply. Just anybody isn't good enough. Instead, be clear and attract the kind of people who matter most to you.
Good advertisers "target" and you should too. That means, rather than cast a wide net, go straight for the people you want and with whom you have a chance. You can target even more by choosing specialized sites. For instance, dating sites for seniors or active singles. So, be specific. It works.
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